Yes, that is what I mean. Or they attempted to.

No, as I stated in the thread clearly that this was for info/asking/answering questions. Therefore my answers are going to be coming from a non-binary person. No one stated (and if it seemed as though I did, apologies) that we want emphasis on these differences. I am not special because I am non-binary. I am just non-binary.

What I want to emphasize and bring to mind are the way we approach gender stereotypes. As you said, you automatically assume based on clothes, race, sex, etc. What I am bringing emphasis to is the fact that a person can look what has been deemed "girly" or "masculine" and be the other, or neither. I am not saying everyone should start going out of their ways, I am saying it is an interesting thing to think about. When we think of our behaviors as humans and how we approach topics, we learn how to better understand ourselves and the others around us.