Oh _Sky I think you may have misunderstood? I am not going to a group, I just meant that I thought Benny idea of starting a group was a good idea.
I could never go to a group in person. I kinda have anxiety in groups of people.
I think you are right on about being scared of "what she heard, or what she thinks she will hear or have to talk about." It seemed like when we started to touch on a particular subject is when the freakout happened.
I will let them know that they don't have to talk if they don't want to. My T is really good about stopping when I tell her to stop pushing, I guess I just need to learn what the littles need better.
Thanks so much!
BJ