I do the exact same thing. I just wonder if we can help each other here by working on ways that we can improve our relationships rather than just "venting" or "complaining" or whatever we want to call it, and then assuring each other that we all do the same thing... It does help to know that I am not the only one, but I sure would like to be able to have the kind of relationships that I see other people have, or at least perceive that they have. Again, just some thoughts.