think of your little as being a real child, would you leave a real child there alone whilst you go off? she does not know why you are leaving her there, in her eyes you abandon her. when you are in this situation again, try reassuring her, hold her hand and take her away from the traumatic situation by doing things which make her happy. like all children, your inner little is an individual, so only by asking her or by trial and error will you know what things make her happy, but many like colouring , reading children's books or watching cartoons. depending on the age of your inner little, a baby dummy for use in private may help, teen age littles often like the same as real teens do. but most important to let your little know you acknowledge their existence, and are always going to protect them in future. no more turning your back on her. always put her first as you would a daughter. eventually she will not feel the need to separate herself from the rest of you.