first thing I can tell is that you bring to the table the fact that you are probably an empathetic person and care about others. it shows in your posts and you bring wisdom. I can tell you have quite a bit of insight into things.. I think that .. guessing from your reactions here that you're not necessarly a high strung person and probably a bit laid back and take things mostly pretty well. That's a good trait to bring into a relationship too Just remember with every negative trait you can think of about yourself, there is always a positive that it also brings. Like Assertiveness turns into control in a negative way. obsessive people can be very passionate. etc etc.