i met my soon to be ex off match.com...he painted himself as this wonderful, Christian man of God who was lonely and needed someone in his life...boy did i catch a catfish...nothing was further from the truth...was banging exes, friends with benefits, coworkers, running partners, you name it, matter fact lonely is the last thing he was...just relationships today weren't reduced to people hiding behind computers, perhaps had i not met my ex off match maybe i wouldn't have invested so much time getting to know him and developing a strong like before getting to know who he truly was.