Yeah I have to agree with hamster bamster. It strikes me odd that someone would care about a one year age difference. That's a sign of immaturity and he seems to have issues within himself that you had to know about because you decided to lie to him. All because you thought he wouldn't go any further with you? That didn't make the situation any better I'll have you know. as fa as marriage... you both need counseling and you both have a lot of bonding to do before you take those vowels.