Hi, Brosci. Pdocs can be difficult to get a hold of. Maybe you could ask them to leave you a message with the best time and day to get ahold of them? As for romantic relationships , can you do any group activities at school pertaining to interests that you enjoy? That could help you feel less self- conscious and make friends and maybe lead to a girlfriend. I'm sorry to hear someone invaded your privacy. I don't even understand why individuals would do that. Don't they have enough problems of their own without having to pry into other people's lives? Or maybe we should feel a little sorry for these snoops. They must lead incredibly small, unimaginative and boring lives and the only way they can find a glimmer of authenticity is by hacking into someone else's life. Sending you hugs. May angels surround you.