^^Like yeah. And then they pretend that they said that because they're trying to SUPPORT you. Huh. They're trying to set you off so they can play, "You're the crazy one, not me." That's what they're trying to do.

I should add that most of the time, they aren't doing that viciously. They may even think they're being absolutely loving and kind, while saying the worst possible things they can say. Maybe it really scares them that the possibility exists they could have something wrong too. So they play these games to reassure themselves that they're OK, by confirming that you aren't.