Hi widowlost. I'm sorry things are so tough right now. It's possible you may be eligible for some assistance/programs/access to resources that you aren't aware of?

Benefits.gov is one of a few topic specific consumer oriented sites that is sponsored by the government. It has an online tool that will help you to estimate eligibility for basically every current assistance program that exists if it is at all government associated.

There is a huge number of them. When I ran it it shot out like twenty of them and by quick glance at least half of them seemed pretty darned viable option for assistance, the others hard to say without more research. But the results provide you with all kinds of info on each program.

The actually questions take about five-seven minutes.
That's my only idea, but I feel there's a good chance you'll find something of use there?

Hope so.