I can't even begin to verbalize or type some of the thoughts I have in my brain sometimes about my spouse. I love him dearly and I know he loves me but ( and of course there is always that BUT ) have my delusional thoughts that think the contrary on everything.

As to your twins. Have you tried taking a wash cloth, wetting it with cold water and letting them each have one and chew on it? Or even place a wet wash cloth in the freezer let it get super cold or freeze? Then give it to them to chew on. Baby Oragel (sp) helps also but, only so much. The wash cloths are what finally worked with mine, every time they were cutting a tooth or molar out came the freezing cold wash cloths and it worked like a charm. Every time I would give them a wash cloth to chew on, I would put two more in the freezer.

Just some ideas to help you. Hope all is going ok for you today.