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Old Dec 17, 2006, 07:32 PM
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So... It was a positive transference (good feelings)?

Did your t say why she terminated you?

Was it because she couldn't cope with your feelings of dependency?

T's have their own issues... Sometimes that means that they can't cope with certain kinds of transferences. Maybe... She lost her younger sibling to suicide or something like that and hence when confronted with your dependency transference it was really triggering for her...

It is her weakness. As a therapist. It is her weakness that she couldn't help you through those feelings.

I'm so sorry that things turned out badly with that :-(
It can be oh so hard to trust people with those vulnerable feelings. I'm sorry it wasn't handled well :-(