Well, good riddens to the old T. I'm sorry you were hurt by the experience, and hope that will not occur with you and any other Ts. I am curious if the former T was a licensed psychologist or not, though.

Transference is necessary for good therapy. But not the coddling, reparenting that your old T gave you... that's not really good transference imo. Your new T will have her work cut out for her to model good transference for you, and it might take you much longer to trust it.