*hugs* to you.

Just a thought, is he using this an excuse to not get married? Is he the marriage type? Or is it too early to be thinking about that? Boys say dumb things sometimes, he probably doesnt realise how much this affected you. If it was me, I would talk to him and share what I was feeling. If we couldnt resolve the marriage issue then I would be reconsidering the relationship, but that is because of where I am in my life which would be different to you.

If you a ruminating maybe you could find a distraction? Its one of my favourite techniques.