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Originally Posted by High Treason
I could be completely off here but...
I get the impression from your OP that you may have been more accusatory than you are letting on and have cleaned the story up a bit to make yourself look more innocent. I'm not suggesting you necessarily even did it consciously. The story people end up with in their heads about what happened almost always makes them come out in a better light than what actually happened. Are you sure you're not believing your own rationalizations? Were you perhaps a bit more accusatory than you think you were recalling the story? Reading between the lines in this story, it seems likely to me.
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It's not only possible, but something that I'm trying to examine. I'm really not trying to clean anything up but trying to look back over this particular change to better understand what is truly his behavior and what is his reaction to my behavior. I definitely feel comfortable with my initial question asking him about the text...but am not sure about the question asking him if he'd intended to send it to someone else. But, there is actually some real logic here. If he did not intend to send the text to me, then he (or someone else) must have intended to send the text to someone else. That's pretty logical if you are not aware of the system's ability to auto-generate a text, which I was not. So, not knowing this about the auto-generate feature, I'm only left with sending a text to someone else...there are really no other options and why it was strange to me. In addition, he is from another country originally, and does not have too many American friends that he would text in English...so, the whole thing was weird to me...but, because it was weird, I'm sure that there were irrational thoughts in my mind...