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Originally Posted by Confusedinomicon
I think if you'd asked in the beginning if a text message was sent instead of asking if the phone was dying then this wouldn't have exploded. I think he was frustrated that you called really late because he wasn't aware of it and the text seemed pretty trivial at best.
Also I would have just forwarded the text back to him so he could have seen that he sent it. It probably would have been easier to clear up if both of you were in the same room so he could physically see the message and not accuse you of anything.
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This is exactly what he said...but, I assumed he'd sent a text..it was from him and it was sent a minute or two after I'd just called him...never crossed my mind that he'd not sent it or that the phone had sent it...we sometimes text if his phone is running low on juice since it takes up less battery life...this was my honest thinking at the time...so, when he later said there was no text...it was really weird. I'm not trying to play games or split hairs...I was honestly confused and then a bit taken by surprise over his level of anger...frustration would have been fine...but I didn't get the anger...