Perhaps, that it is called a "one night stand" because it is not based on a deep commitment and a long term relationship? Or that a woman looking for this sort of interaction will recognize and avoid men who appear to be carrying an unusual amount of emotional baggage? That sort of thing? Having failed to have a "one night stand" myself, I can only guess as to how to go about hooking up in this way. On the other hand, the information is out there on the internet. Be prepared, because it is going to cost time and money and effort. On the other hand, if you do become a "pickup artist" your confidence will certainly benefit in the process.

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