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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
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I am a little unsure about whether your therapist is a good fit for you. Did you tell the story to the therapist? This is because I did not even address EVERY spectacular failure of his guy - what with his telling you that you were SUPPOSED to have sex whereas he should have thanked you for helping to clean up after dinner, and many more - it would take one an hour and a half to write down every spectacular faux pas the guy committed. So I am wondering why you posted even though you are in therapy - I am wondering how the therapist did not mention any of those obvious things to you.
Or did you not tell the therapist everything in as great a level of detail as in the OP?
Just wondering. But do not contact the guy ever - that is for sure!!!
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I told my therapist
absolutely everything I have written here, and I went into even further detail. The only thing that she told me was that I, personally, had settled. I'm not quite sure she understood it, and I've started to realize recently that we are most likely not a good match... so, in short, that is why I have posted here.
Thank you so much for the post - having it broken down like that really helps! And, I'm not sure how it was not obvious to me... he had started treating me poorly the week right before all of this happened, and I tried to leave, but he wouldn't accept it.