When I first was DX over a yr ago, it seemed like my T was only interested in "them". And I felt jealous somewhat because I had worked with her before the DX--even tho she says that she now realizes others were out.

Anyway, I've come to realize that for me letting insiders talk and working things out with T is in the long run going to make "me" bigger so to speak.
With the info they give T my life is becoming more clear. I am learning how to communicate and listen better to their voices about what they need which in turn lets me know what I need. This is helping switching for me.

I agree that your concerns need to be voiced to your T. Esp. if you feel he is mre interested in "them" and not listening to you. You also have much you need to talk about.

PM anytime.
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