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Old Aug 31, 2013, 01:27 AM
Anonymous200105
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Right, so I cant be partial on this one for myself. So I am asking you guys.

I have been told over and over by my husband that I am too sensitive. By this I mean, over react to a 'normal' situation or happening. In that note I feel he doesn't react or have emotion at all.

Example
Last night I wanted to go out to a pub to have a cocktail as I had received a voucher and wanted to be out and have a drink. Esp caz it was free

I asked my husband if I could go, if he minded and he said he would go with. Havning not left his couch for the whole week, this was a surprise and an upset. We have not been getting along and didn't really want to be around him at all. When we got there a manger we had have issues with before seated us and immediately gave me hassels about my voucher. My husband got angry, thew his stuff down and left. I had the car keys, so he was walking. I originally thought he was going to come back but he didn't so when I went tot go find him, he was coming back to get his smokes and was fuming angry. He yelled at me to stay. After all the stress and misery I was not going to stay in a crowded pub by myself and be upset. So I went to the car. I was overwhelmed by emotions and held back a good cry. I drove off to find him and when he decided to get into the car we drove off in silence and he said 2 things. 1 about the manger and 2 about where to stop the car.

When I got home I was not keeping it together and changed and took my make up off and spent the next 1 or so crying. I felt so sad, angry, overwhelmed and that life and being with him was such a waste! My life if passing me by and he is not letting me be in it. I sobbed and sobbed and sobbed. Not in front of him, because he would yell at me for being 'distressed ' again. He does not tolerate crying or me being upset. Just yells and walks away and ignore's me.

This is an example of what happens and how I feel. This sort of thing happens a lot.

What say you?
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