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Originally Posted by planejane13
1) Today we are supposed to sign another year lease and I feel as though I should tell my landlords that I probably wont be here much longer. Im afraid they'll think Im crazy. They live right next door and know Ive left multiple times before.
2) I know I need to leave. I mentioned the abuse to his mother and she says I need to work on the effects my childhood has had on me, that thats the cause of my initial problem with the bf. That didnt make me feel very good because I know Im sensitive and I dont like loud noises or fights, etc but Ive never been in a relationship and been this depressed and anxiety ridden. I feel so bad about myself today.
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1) - it does not MATTER AT ALL what the landlords think of you. If they think that you are crazy, it would be PERFECTLY FINE AND OF NO CONSEQUENCES. The consequences would stem from your co-signing a lease, because that would create a legal obligation. Do not co-sign the lease and do not care about what the landlords think or feel or say. Just do not co-sign the lease and call it quits.
2) If you know that you need to leave, why did you waste your time mentioning the abuse to his mother? Why did you even select his mother to be the person with whom you'd share? You do not know anything about what is called "conflict of interest"?
As Trippin said - do not SUBJECT YOURSELF to this. Do not subject yourself. Leave.