Thanks everyone.

I have calmed down now. I want to try and support her, so I asked her how I could do that. She can not give me an answer. Deep down I feel she wants to say "don't be bipolar" but knows better, yet that is all just assuming on my part and I know assumptions are wrong. I really want to fix this relationship. I feel the only problem is me and my bipolar. I feel without it we would be fine. And I think she feels the same way only she can not see the difference between me and the bipolar. ugh... this is so complicated. I just wanted a nice three day weekend with her, now we spent the entire first day fighting