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Originally Posted by broken and lonely
i am 18 years old.
my social circle is wide but the thing is there is no guys in it.. or maybe just a couple. i don't what to do to find someone good specially that i have some things i can't tolerate. i want someone who is worth my heart. i am just really lonely and now i am depressed because of it. maybe the problem is with me.. maybe i don't deserve love..
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I think you are putting the cart before the horse.
Do not look for romantic partners - just work on slowly expanding your social circle to include more guys. Why does your social circle have no guys in it? Did you go to a girls' school? Are you in college yet? If you are, is the college co-ed?
You also need to treat the depression - sunlight, cardio, a good sleep routine, etc. If these remedies do not work, then maybe see a doctor, but try them first. The sentiment you expressed - not deserving love - signals some ongoing depression.
Try to kills two birds at once - say, look up some kind of a hiking group on MeetUp, make sure it is co-ed, and try it out. You will get to expand the social circle, you will get sunlight, you will get exercise, etc.