I was in the bank the other day waiting to talk to a manager with whom I had an appointment. I was wearing a cap, shorts and a tshirt, sandals and carried a backpack. I have short hair. A teller called across the lobby, "sir, oh sir! Are you waiting for someone?" Teen idle is right, "excuse me" would have been a better choice. The teller seemed embarrassed and I still dont know what to make of it. It happens from time to time, but it's not like I'm trying for a particular look either way. Most of my clothes are women's - the occasional shoe or sock or sweatshirt maybe not. Good thread.