So I have three children and I absolutely hate the look of disappointment on their little faces. Here's the problem. Whenever my family has a problem with me they'll have an attitude with my kids too and treat them as if they don't exist. My children don't have anything to do with my personal life and it pisses me off that someone would treat my kids so wrong because of their disagreements with me. They're too young to even understand what's going on so why treat them differently as if they've done something to yo?

My dilemma is how to go about the situation. Since I know they do it purposely should i just cut them off from my children completely or just deal with it. I want my family and children to know each other and have a bond but how can that happen when they're constantly acting wishy washy with my children. I don't want to confuse my children and let them grow up thinking this is normal like I did.

What should I do. Then my family will try to make me feel bad. Here's an example. Before I got into this living situation I'm in now I was living with my boyfriend in our apartment and we literally stayed away from everybody for about 7 months to get ourselves together. It was never to keep my children away from any intentionally. My family was infuriated that I hadn't brought my children around them in so long. I felt bad but I didn't think it mattered because, like I said whenever someone has a problem with me they have a problem with my children.

Would I be wrong if I cut off all contact between my children and my so called family? We'll be moving in sometime within the next two months so should I just make this a permanent departure between my children and family?

I need logical answers! Please help me my head is spinning just thinking about it.