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Originally Posted by avlady
It does sound like you need at least a break from your family. Do you go to counseling yourself, or would you be able to? I don't think its a bad thing if you don't want you children in the middle of an adult situation, it just breeds more problems, and may ruin the childs friendships too, if they are close to them. Well you're moving anyway? I'm sorry to say this is a lifelong delimma you will have to go through making this decision with the new people too? Trust your own judgment too!
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Thanks and I think about going to counseling and I know I need to but I am scared that the doc will tell me I'm crazy or try to put me on some medication because I have crazy thoughts. But I'm just lost. I want so badly to just erase my children's memory of these people but I can't and they use that to their advantage just to hurt me not realizing that their hurting my children in the process as well. It's a bad place to be in as a parent.