I've been crushing on my therapist for months now. The feelings dissipated, because he wasn't reciprocating (rightly so). I thought I had licked (no pun intended) the transference. No sir, it reared it's head again this past week.

My therapist is in full knowledge of my 'feelings' for him.

Many who are experiencing the same thing with their therapist suggest that sharing will help the feelings.

I've shared, but my feelings are still strong.

So, I'm not sure if the feelings actually lessen, or just expressing them gets them out in the open?

I'm hopeful one day the feelings will subside.

Also, from what I've read therapist may have 'feelings' for you, but often they aren't talked about and of course, never should be acted on. You know the ol' Code of Ethics rule!