I've been in a loving relationship with my lover for 17 months now and we've decided to seriously plan a future together. We are semi retired, ages 49 (me) and he is 54, and are very supportive of each others needs and goals. He is an investment banker and I work part-time on an internet business. He does make significantly more than I do, I just discovered this as we were discussing our financial situations recently. We don't spend a lot of money, but live comfortably. As we were going over the topics necessary to plan a future together such as the ideal home life together, we were being extremely honest about some of our expectations and ideal situations. I like to go out and socialize once a week, cook dinner most nights, do yoga and walk on the beach most days/nights and spend a lot of time together. We both enjoy the same things and agree on the day to day rituals. He said he would also would like for me to simply meet him at the door when he arrives from the office wearing lingerie once in a while or as often as I'd like and to please don't ever withhold love from him. We do have a great sex life and we are very affectionate with each other. He wants to add extra communication time to the mix so that we wont have to waste precious time together with miss-understandings. He is always encouraging me to tell him how to make me happy and to let him know what I want.
This all seems so perfect and we are very happy together. Does anyone think that I may be missing something here? I guess I think this is too good to be true since my first marriage of 28 years was quite the opposite of this relationship.