hi stefano.

firstly, well done for opening up. it isnt easy, i know.

even though i am not your age, i am a mere 19 year old male, i too am a virgin. it does get to me most days as i long for female intamacy. but the way i see it, stefano, is that i am saving myself for that one special woman who i KNOW i will meet. the same goes for you. you will meet someone one day who will sweep you off your feet. and when the two of you make love it will seem so much more special for you. sex shouldnt be something that people just do all the time with anyone. to me it is far more special, it shows love for someone. i will never have one night stands with people. and i know the same goes for you. it is not a bad thing to be a virgin at your age, you arent even old. you still have so much life ahead of you, to live exactly how you want to live it. only you can change your life, only you can live your life. please, dont sit back and expect life to improve, because it wont, life has to be worked for, to be "earned". we are responsible for our own happiness, no one else.

and like i said, when you meet that special person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and you make love to her, it will make everything so much more important and special to you, and that is the best feeling in the world, and is worth so mcuh more than just having sex with strangers.

simon