thanks for answering . I know sometimes I can be harsh when I don't understand something so I ask. I thought maybe it would be better in another forum. but I do agree that a lot of people who don't have T's use this forum for support. I just find it hard to see sexual things light hearted.my stuff.

you seem to have a lot of curiosities around sexual stuff and so on .maybe you might also want to check out this forum for some answers. although I admit it may not be as busy as this forum .

http://forums.psychcentral.com/sexual-gender-issues/