HI... I am new here too. If it helps, my son got his miracle. He is 22 and dated his best friend for 3 years. They went to the same pre-school together and grade school and so on.
Something happened, on her end - my guess is that my son wouldn't ask her to marry him - he felt they needed to have their act together prior to marriage.
Well she ended up pregnant while they were broken up. It took a great deal of forgiveness on both of their parts but they are back together and doing well.
There has been acceptance all the way around - for myself as well - I see the baby as my grandchild though tech. she is not my blood grandchild - but in love there is no tech.

So I believe that GOD does what is in our best interest at the right time for us. My son was not ready to accept resposibility of marriage a couple of years ago and his grilfriend also seriously needed to grown up.Yet here they are 2 years later back together.

Most people would not see this as a win situation for my son (raising someone else's son but thru the grace of GOD has it turned into a real blessing.

My point here is simply to fully put your fate in GODs hands and trust Him.

Divorce is very painful - I speak from personal experience - though from 21 years ago. The one thing that I did learn is that it does get better. I'm sure my words are not of comfort to you right now. But either way, it will get better.Hang onto that will all your might.

Sincerely,
Lu