It's an eternal right to choose when you are physically touched by another, no matter what the relationship is that you have with that person and no matter what the reason, surface or otherwise, behind that touch. Feeling that your right to choose not to be touched (hugged by your husband) is respected, is important. Can you educate your husband in this regard, without apology?
Not easy, and it's just one point I'm picking up on from what you describe of your situation (I thinks it's an important one though).
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