Yes I want to feel better. Nobody wants to be so over emotional as to cry all the time, that a bit ridiculous. I certainly don't. re the post.

It is not the first time the manager has not had the skills for his job and certainly not the first time my husband had not walked out or gotten upset by somebody not 'licking his arse' so make life exactly as he intended it to be.

Yes , I should have been ok to tell him, I wanted to be out alone and Yes I should have been ok with talking out each issue one at a time. But there seems to be so many and he seems to make it out like this is MY problem and that he should not be involved. He doesnt want to talk to me or help me or interact with me on any level. So yes, I had a right to be upset when he wanted to come with me and yes i should have said something. But it is obvious that you have never been in a situation where being quiet was the best thing. How old are you?

No I dont have a set of girlfriends. Otherwise this would prob not be an issue. Like I said this happens all the time. Yes I would that group of firends that CAN help me. But I dont.