About 20 years ago, I was with a T that totally screwed me up, though I wasn't doing so good anyway. He was the first T that I had ever seen and I didn't know that I was being screwed up until it was too late.

Well.... what I found out is that his life was far from being together and he was pretty miserable.

Unfortunately, there are T out there like my first one and your current one.... Fortunately they are in the minority.

I've had several T after that who have worked out,, each bringing something different to the plate.

I'm so sorry you had this experience, at the time with the first T ,,, I was sooo angry.

My personal opinion is that a T that screws up his patient has a many more problems and a miserable life CAUSE if they had an OK life they would not have screwed up their patient's life.

It makes me feel much better.

((((hugs))))