I personally would not have this social worker as my T, no matter what explaination she gave for leaving that message. No matter what she has shown very, very poor judgement.

I feel very strongly about this.

When I first started therapy, I didn't tell my husband because he was incredibly violent. This was 20 so years ago and yet my T and his office still respected my request for no phone calls and no billings to my home. If my T back then had called and left any message, it could have caused my death literally. I was in therapy for a year before I told him and then only to also tell him I wanted a divorce.

Sincerely,
Lu