My partner knows and is therapy too. We discuss a lot of what comes up with each other. Not everything and not right away but a lot. It's been helpful to have good emotional support outside of each other and we each notice if the other hasn't gone for a while. Due to vacations and scheduling issues I've only seen my T once in the last month and she hasn't seen hers at all (we usually go weekly) and I'm really, really happy for both of is that a normal schedule should be resuming this week!