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Originally Posted by oldlife_disrupted
That's a very stressful situation, I'm sorry to hear about that.if the family is this involved and taking these actions, I have to assume they're acting on info they were given and they probably got it from her.
I don't know any of you, but it sounds to me like she told them something that made them protective and she might be lying to you about wanting them to leave her alone.
If you're innocent of anything that would make her that scared, you have to go to court and clear up the situation. If you're not, you need to leave her alone get treatment before you can try to reconcile a family life.
Not judging, I don't know you but that's what it sounds like to me a miilion miles away on the internet.
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Agree with this. i feel like there is information you've left out and it's like you've placed the ball in her court with regards to the protection order. I have been married 2x before and even as bad as those marriages got, if there was ever a protection order, I don't think typically women do that without any reason so it makes me ask why was it she left, what was the protection order from and what did you do about it to fix the situation?
Her family is keeping you apart for reasons related to protecting your wife from you. Regardless of your part in this, you have to see their side of things and realize they are just being family. Work it out with your wife and don't create animosity toward them because of this.
Even in the slim chance that the protection order was based on nothing solid, the fact is if any marriage gets to this point, something is very wrong. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, there are still things that obviously need to be resolved and It's hard for me to see you doing anything about it, as you've not mentioned that. Take the responsibility off your wife to just drop the order and do something proactively on your part. Without knowing all the details I can't say waht you need to do... but I'm sure if you really soul search you'll figure it out.
good luck to you.