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Old Sep 03, 2013, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by missninaw View Post
I know not to waste my time on him now but I just cant understand why he does this and would like to know why. I think it may be a form of sadism and he enjoys trying to gain control and being nasty. I would like to know peoples thoughts on this. Thanks
Well ~ you said it. You know not to waste your time on him, but you continue to do so, despite his sadistic ways. He's got you hooked, and that's how it works. Get out now, before it moves to the next level. Believe me...there are further, scarier dimensions than these.

The best advice that I can give you is to stop giving in NOW. Change your phone number, computer address, etc. You really do need to protect yourself from letting this relationship go any farther.
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