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Sep 03, 2013, 06:37 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2013
Location: Florida
Posts: 31
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I'm with a man now, who has intimacy issues. He doesn't like to say he loves me, and he doesn't like to kiss. But... I am with him, and I know he loves me. I used to think obsessively about how I could get him to let me know that he loves me. I even talked to him a few times about it. He's not confused or anything, my point here is, it seems as tho you are obsessing on this woman. Obsessing shows and can be a huge turn off. It can be hard when you are very much IN LOVE with someone to do what I am going to suggest you do, and DON'T DO THIS FOR ATTENTION FROM HER, but PLEASE, find something else to really get involved into. Something that will pull your thoughts away from her. It WILL TAKE TIME, but you really need to find something else to keep your mind off of her. If you really do this and mean this, she will be wondering why your not paying so much attention to her. And I think she has to be responsible for her actions and not use you for a crutch when she needs attention. She seems as tho she does have some kind of feelings for you.. yes, but what's most important is that you try and not obsess on this and make your thoughts more positive. I have OCD too. Medication actually has done wonders for me. And, I had been obsessed in relationships before as well. I can relate to you !!! 
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