HI,
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I'M IN YOU WIFE'S SHOES RIGHT NOW. MY HUSBAND PACKED UP HIS STUFF AND LEFT ME AND AT FIRST I FELT SO ABANONED AND SO HURT. BUT NOW 6 MONTHS LATER, I'M PRETTY MUCH OKAY WITH THE SEPARATION. (IT DOES HURT KNOWING HE DOESN'T WANT COME BACK, BUT YET I HAVE HOPE THAT THINGS WILL CHANGE.) PLEASE DON'T RUSH AT A DECISION RIGHT NOW, FOR THAT COULD CAUSE MORE DAMAGE. YOUR WIFE NEEDS YOUR SUPPORT, BUT YET I KNOW IT CAUSES YOU TO FEEL LIKE YOU ARE BEING DROVE CRAZY. SEEK AN OUTSIDE SOURCE SUCH AS A COUNSELOR OR A FAMILY MEMBER OR FRIEND WHO COULD MEDITATE YOUR CONCERNS TO YOUR WIFE. YES SEPARTION IS AN OPTION BUT DON'T FEEL LIKE THAT IS THE END OF YOUR MARRIAGE. FOR WE ARE GOING TO GO THRU TRAILS IN THIS COMMITMENT THAT WE VOWED. SEPRARTING, WITH INTENTS TO GET BACK TOGETHER MAY ENCOURAGE YOUR WIFE TO SEEK THE HELP SHE NEEDS. LIKE I MENTIONED EARILER, THOUGH, DON;T LEAVE WITHOUT HER KNOWING EXACTLY WHAT IS TAKING PLACE. REMEMBER WE AS WOMEN WHEN LOVED WILL FOLLOW A MAN'S DECISION; IF DONE APPROIATELY. I HOPE THIS HELPS SOME?! PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH.
GWEN