Well, I had to tell T that the whole "vision board" thing was too advanced for where I was now emotionally...and to proove my point I dressed in my day to day, around the house norm.

A long time ago, I was in an HMO and they gave me a male T amd after 2 sessions, i knew it would not work. I called and was told I had to CALL HIM & tell him I wanted someone different..I was very nervous, but did it. He was fine with it.

I also confronted a pdoc, whom was inferring that I had an ED. I said to her "Then you must have one as well because you could fit into my clothing. WHat size is your suit? Do you have an ED? I am thin because I am depressed". She started to argue with me that it was not about her, it was about me. I would not go back to her.