I am going through the same transference, instead of knee deep, waist deep lol, my group male t, has told me "he likes me too" but as in a general sense, not that he shares my romantic feelings, he would never share that with me even if he did, his boundaries are tight, and it would cloud the therapeutic relationship even though its still group therapy, as for me I am not in that group anymore, I am going to start working through that transference starting tomorrow with my individual female t, and it hurts and it sucks, so hang in there, sending you hugs.