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Originally Posted by joj14
So I decided I would finally tell my T about my feelings and it sucked!!! But, much to my surprise, he said he feels the same way about me and he doesn't think it can ever "go away" and that we just have to learn to "ignore it". What in the frick am I supposed to do with that? Then when it was time to leave, he gave me a hug and I did not want to leave. STUPID. So frustrated. It's 10 million times worse now than what it was. Now what do I do?
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OMG! I would not know what to do with that either. I would know in my head the right thing to do is to find another T but since I am ruled by my emotions I would not want to give that up. I would be spending all my time thinking how can I win what I want from him. Perhaps even playing damsel in distress to get more attention. No that would not be good at all. Yikes! Bad T!
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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