When you need something from me, tell me what it is! Don't dance all around the subject, giving me lots of vague information, and expect me to guess the right thing. Then, when I don't guess right you get aggravated and angry with me. Well, I am going to stop taking the blame for that, beginning now! Tell me the specifics from the start instead of making me drag them out of you. That makes me aggravated and angry. I am happy to be of assistance, but I can't do it if I don't know what you want.