I know just what you're going through. In July, the wife and I moved into a new home, and it was very stressful. Had me spinning a little bit, but it has been a little more than a month, and thankfully, the feelings and anxious thoughts have calmed quite a bit. It will take time, and (even though I only know of you what I have seen you post) I believe that you are more than capable to handle it. (As far as picking up stuff from Craiglist, just rent a truck or a van. Even the Home Depot rents trucks, and some places, furniture stores, etc. will deliver.)