Why is it that when you are going through something very painful such as major depression, a serious illness, death of a loved one, or any other painful situation, the people in your life who you thought were close to you, disappear? What is that about? After I became unemployed, lost my mom and going through a whole list of difficulties several of my so-called close friends and family members avoided talking to me. Granted, I have withdrawn and isolated, (a symptom of depression), but I have told people it is because of my being depressed and going through so much. You would think that every now and then they would call or email to let me know they are still around if I need them. I even emailed a few people and told them how unhappy and alone I was and I got no responses. That is so hurtful. It makes me want to just end all contact with them. How do you abandon someone that is clearly in trouble, even if they are withdrawing? Am I wrong to be upset and hurt?