My mom was always there but she had a lot of anger some which must be genetic as me and my sister are spitting images of her. Shes on meds now so shes tolerable. As for my dad I hope he dies a long and miserable death, I will not be attending his funeral. Kindof harsh but I am moving on and leaving him behind. I adored my kids as babies but now they are just kindof overwhelming. The girl though has attitude and she always had from the day she was born. She hasnt gone to daycare until recently and my son isnt so bad. He will puck on her and get her worked up sometimes but what brother hasnt.... I think part of our personalities are definatly genetic and partially taught/learned