So, my girlfriend and I have been dating a while and we love each other. It seemed a little early to be saying the "love" word when she brought it up, but I quickly realized that I love her completely. Although we have recently expressed we love each other, I have had a consistent worry since the beginning of our relationship that my feelings for her are stronger than her feelings for me. The only reason I believe this is because she broke up with her previous boyfriend (a rather dull guy) because, in her words, "he liked me more than I liked him". With OCD, this thought will pop in my mind at any time and can ruin my day! I really would love to stop and just trust that we love each other equally. Our relationship is going very well, and we are enjoying spending a ton of time together. Although my depressive mind gets in the way sometimes, I can usually recognize what an unreasonable worry is and talk myself out of it but for some reason this worry of "unequal love" won't leave my mind. Any insight?
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