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And yes I do already know it is my fault that any of it happens because I make him angry and he says that no one can make him angry like I do and I bring it on myself......

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SORRY BUT I AM NOT BUYING IT. You are not responsible for someone else's improper and illegal actions. Even if you think you do act out,, there is NO excuse for becoming physically or mentally abusive towards anyone. If what you say or do makes someone else angry, then it's up to them to control themselves and not beat you up.

That's what abuse does to ppl..makes them think it's all their own fault... the abusers connive to make that happen too. Please contact your local Women in Distress, shelters, local churches that are large enough for community efforts and at least begin to listen to what options you do have. You don't have to just put up with this... you do need to make other plans... don't begin to say you can't just because you don't know how or what is needing to be done. That's what the experts can help you with. I'm sure you can find a link online to good information.

If nothing else, take my word for it ..and theirs... and believe that you need to make changes, and you can...for your own best interest.