yeah, I know what you mean! my sister and her husband played that game with me for many years. they would just never come out and ask me or tell me what they wanted/needed from--I was always expected to second guess them, then they would get so angry at me because I didnt just "know." They were my legal guardians for a couple of years, and they spent a lot of time very mad at because I didnt just know what they wanted without them telling me; oh, to this day, they still accuse me of having been "rebellious," "defiant," etc, just because I wasnt a mind reader!